Some time ago I stood up for myself,
I gave myself my worth and learned to say "No".
I, the one who used to please the most, have the balance of the heart
In moments of joy and also of argument,
Where the communication is respected
As it is the agreed rule
Among the people whose around me,
And for those who don’t like it,
There’s the door so they won’t come back here no more.
For in this imperfect world
We make the effort to achieve understanding,
That’s why violence is not an option in this household.
Today, as I write these words that form another poem,
My body feels lighter and my mind more open,
And this heart of mine that beats strongly
I will not give to just anyone again.
And if I have to walk alone for a good while, so be it.
My ears no longer pay attention to so many complaints
From people who think they are right.
Here in this life, my life, I only demand of myself.
The blessings I receive I perceive with emotion.
The challenges I face, I invoke my courage to reason with.
And I let myself be hugged and consoled
By people who mind their own business.
While I am grateful for this new reason for being
That lives from my own love and respect.
By: Diana Arco